You’ve come to me for relationship advice because you can’t seem to find a good match or anything that lasts. You’re left feeling lonely and hopeless, in need of a partner to help balance you. It sounds to me like what you need in a partner isn’t romantic at all, so let’s forget about that for now… I want to try an exercise with you, and I want to start slow and take our time. Instead of visualizing yourself with a romantic partner, let’s focus on someone more maternal. Feel yourself opening up to the idea of imagining me as your step-Mommy, someone you feel safe with and cared for. Tap into your sexuality as you conflate your natural attraction to me with your natural need for a step-Mommy to guide and protect you. As I start to strip down and command you to pleasure yourself and call me step-Mommy, it feels more and more erotic and real. You want me, you NEED me, to be your step-Mommy. Nothing feels better than my warm grasp around your psyche, the softness of my steady voice, and the relief in your security that step-Mommy is in control. You don’t need another sexual or romantic partner. You don’t need a counselor to help you find anyone else. step-Mommy knows what you need because step-Mommy always knows best
